Duniya ki kahi hui baat aur apnon ki kahi hui baat main farq yeh hota hai ke duniya ki kahi hui baat pehlay takleef deti hai phir uss ki aadat hojati hai. Apnon ki kahi hui baaton ki kabhi aadat nahi hoti. Harr baar sun’nay per takleef pehlay say ziada barhti hai.
"She [mother] wasn’t really the best critic since she never had anything unkind to say but she did gave me love and confidence and, above all, she was very clear that nothing would mean anything if I didn’t live a life of use to others. And I didn’t know what that meant for a long time."